Premature Ejaculation - Coming too quickly

Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual dysfunction in men and statistically occurs more frequently than ED (erectile dysfunction, also called impotence). PE can have a negative impact on a man’s self esteem as well as on the quality of a relationship or indeed the love live. If left untreated, it can even lead to psychological disturbances such as anxiety or stress. So, if you experience premature ejaculation or have been suffering from it for a long time, do not ignore the problem as effective treatments are now available to help you overcome these difficulties.

Premature ejaculation treatment

Premature Ejaculation – The Facts

While it is a very common affliction, with an estimated 30% of all sexually active men affected by it, there is no standardised or uniform medical definition for premature ejaculation. This however is hardly a surprise considering the individual nature of the matter – every couple has got their own idea as to how long a mutually satisfying encounter should last.

There are however a few criteria which are characteristic for premature ejaculation and if any of the following apply to you and you experience these symptoms on a frequent basis, you should seek help and consider getting treatment.

Symptoms

Ejaculating in less than 2 minutes of stimulation on a regular basis
Lack of control
Distress and lack of sexual satisfaction

Causes

Psychological factors such as: depression; stress; unrealistic expectations
Performance anxiety
Interpersonal dynamics such as hurt feelings or a lack of emotional intimacy
Physical factors– low levels of serotonin

Non-medical Remedies and Treatments

Numbing condoms, creams or sprays – Local surface anaesthetics are applied to the tip and/or shaft of the penis so as numb the area, which effectively delays ejaculation. The most common products such as EMLA cream contain Lidocaine or Prilocaine are available over the counter at your local pharmacy. Please bear in mind that topical anaesthetics can also numb your partner’s genitals. To avoid this, condoms of which the inside is coated in Lidocaine are also available.
Sexual therapy – With the help of a qualified therapist, the man can learn certain techniques that will help him to detect and control the point of no return, i.e. the point in time immediately before ejaculation. The squeeze method or the stop/start technique are very effective however they do require active participation of both partners and some men may find it embarrassing to go and see a therapist.
Counselling – Can be costly but also effective, especially if associated factors such as depression and anxiety play a role.

PE treatment has been clinically proven to delay ejaculation. One tablet is taken as and when needed a few hours before intercourse. For further information, please visit our page on premature ejaculation medication.

Premature ejaculation treatment